There is no better way to receive anal sex tips other than from a pornstar. Sexy Asian girl, Mia Li, is here for all of you to share with you tips and tricks how to have pleasurable butt sex. And she might just be at the perfect location to talk about the bum fun.
You don’t need to know that much about vaginal sex, however, when it comes to asshole play, you do need to educate yourself about it. Never, ever in your life go for it without any knowledge and preparation. This goes both for girls and guys. Sure, dudes don’t need much preparation other than growing a boner (except for the gay people). But for a healthy and exciting anal intercourse, you both need to know what you are doing.
It takes girls some time to really get used to it so make sure you do not rush it. Not to mention, girls (and guys) do play with your butt first all by yourself. Apply the lube and massage the anus first. You will start experiencing pleasurable sensation only by massaging the outside of your backdoor. Stinky is very sensitive and does not need much to get your body to tremble.
The number one thing you should be aware of before the butt fun is to not do it if your body is refusing it. Do not force yourself into something if it does not feel right. You do not need to suffer. Every kind of sexual experience should feel good. Whether you are playing with yourself or you go kinky with a partner, you should always enjoy yourself first.
Speaking of partner and introducing others to your anal journey, make sure you talk about it. Conversation matters. Before you do anything to your asshole, have a thorough conversation with the one you want to spend intimate anal sex moments with. Speak about what feels right and what you aren’t comfortable with. Be honest.
Sometimes your body just won’t work with anal, and there is no shame in that. By all means, do not force yourself into something if your body is refusing it. Never.
Do have a diet that does not irritate your bowels. Say no to tacos!
Make sure you wipe with stuff that won’t scrape up your butthole. You know, that rough paper that hurts your ass when you clean it. That’s a big no-no. For instance, the dry stuff you find all over the place is your enemy.
Hint: Baby wipes are the best and should become your best friend.
Ass play is very delicate and you cannot just expect to shove large objects up your butt straightaway. It takes time to train your ass to be stretchy and ready for a satisfying penetration. Do not rush. Rushing is probably one of the best ways to injure your butthole.
One of the key parts to a pleasuring bum sex is to have your body and mind completely relaxed. Breath and be calm and, very importantly, be in the mood. Make sure you are in sync with your body and you get yourself excited enough and your butthole comfortable to have a more fruitful experience with your butt and putting stuff in it.
Needless to say, it takes time to get ready for the stinky action. Cleaning it, stretching it and also the aftercare. It’s completely unrealistic to just decide to play with your butt five minutes from now and expect to have a porno anal sex. Not happening.
There is not a universal one size fits all sex toy that can go into you. Every ass is different. Not to mention, what you can do to it today can vary to what you can do to it tomorrow. Asses are tricky. You really need to figure it out yourself. Shape, size, density and all these things matter.
We all know that sex can be messy, especially when it comes to ass sex. Whatever you stick in it, it will eventually come out. Butt jelly, lube, the second wave of poo and just a lot of other things that can get out of your body. You can get away with it by having sex under the shower, however, water will probably wash away your lube. That is certainly one of the things that you do not want to happen.
Hint: you can (and you should) use a condom, plus proper lubrication, with your first anal sex experience. As for the lube, use water (most recommended) or silicone based lubes. Don’t use the oil-based lubricants, like, never.
For the longevity of your bum, make sure you check in with it. It is normal to find little hot spots of friction, little tears and other nuisance. In what shape you butt is after sex will help you determine if you used enough lube, what worked and what did not work.
Make sure you butthole is healthy.
According to Mia Li, she highly encourages people to try anal by themselves first. You know best what feels right, what your boundaries and limits are. Simply figure out how to make that experience feel the best it can before you involve other people.
As I always say and will say it again, never stop experimenting with sex. Make it fun and exciting. You may easily unlock new horizons of satisfaction that may feel even better compared to what you practiced so far. But have one thing in mind, never rush with any new act and always speak about it. Not to mention, a bit of education never hurt anybody.
In true Wood Rocket fashion, they don’t only get you familiar with pornstars and the adult entertainment industry in general, they also try and give you tips about everything sex related. In this episode, they ask adult actresses to give away some secret tips and tricks about the butt play. Are you ready? Let’s begin.
Your favorite Austrian male pornstar, Mick Blue, says communication is one of the most important things. You need to communicate with her and make sure she is comfortable with it. Don’t do any dumb moves, guys.
Spanis redhead star, Amarna Miller, goes 100% real with you and tells you that the girl will start enjoying anal sex no sooner than after she tries it a few times. “It is very weird feeling that you haven’t felt before. Take your time, enjoy, explore but take it easy and don’t force yourself.”
About preparing for the ass fuck, Charlotte Sartre says that a good way to do it is to put something up the ass while masturbating.
Moreover, Lily Lane suggests to stretch out the butt a few days before. “What I do is I get butt plugs different size, like a training kit. I put the second biggest for two or three days and then the biggest for the day before and the day of to make sure my butthole can stretch and take a nice big cock without complaining in the middle of the scene.”
“Don’t just put the dick in,” says Aubrey Sinclair. A girl should warm it up first and play with it and, like said before, use a butt plug to get it adjusted to larger objects.
When it comes to the butt plug size, Cherie DeVille uses a plug that is about 3/4 of the girth of the guy she is about to fuck. “That really makes the whole experience enjoyable. For my body, it’s like the first two minutes that can be intense but if I take a minute and warm up with that butt plug then there is all just the pleasurable part.” Two minutes of warm up is more than enough, she adds.
Big ass owning Abella Danger says that a girl should definitely have a fiber rich diet. This way it makes it easier for a woman to clean out.
Pornstars and the enema process
Lily Lane cleans her ass once or twice the day before and then once in the morning and two more times right before anal sex.
Furthermore, Leya Falcon uses an enema slightly differently. She empties the bottle with the enema liquid first and fills it with warm (not hot!) water and puts back the long nozzle but removes the nozzle. “You put it up your butt and you kind of like pull the water in your ass. Like, make your ass muscles pull in the water as you are pushing it and then just poop it out. And then you look at the water and if it is clear you are good to go.”
As for the food, many stars say they don’t eat several hours before the scene or since the night before. As suggested by Abella, don’t forget to eat foods rich in fiber.
Aside from the communication, preparation and as much lube (in some cases spit) as you want, one of the major things for the girl to be aware of is to relax her body and mind. Ebony gorgeous, Harmony Cage, says, “Take a deep breath and relax.” Don’t stress out, it is all about mental relaxation first. When relaxed mentally, all the muscles in the body will be relaxed as well.
Dudes, give the booty some love, make the girl feel good. And for the girls, be with someone who is fine without it in the beginning and will go slow at first and ease into it.
Last words from the lovely Leya, “I think the number one tip is communication and consent. After that, then you can worry about everything else.”